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Hi!

I don't know how is it be to be like you,
Because I am not you.

But I would learn to respect you,
embrace our differences.

I love you.

=)

outdate？

O.O 最近发现我都几outdate下
那小子好像有女朋友了，而且对方还是巧诗。。。
也不知道自己是不是推断错。。。
没关系啦，哈哈！

看看下他的照片，很好笑下。
他就是有一幅很欠打的脸，
从他的表情你就可以联想到他平时说话的时候那种鬼样子，
真的是很好笑。

其实我很偏心的，三个人里，
我最疼的是他，因为他是最聪明那个。
其实他很有天资的，可是就是懒。
哎，算了吧，他都那么大了，
自己也会想的吧！

感觉也很奇怪一下，
其实他们三个年纪都比我大，
可是在我心中，
我还是觉得他们好像小孩子那样。
或是因为男生比较迟熟和幼稚的关系，
而且又是学弟，所以才总是觉得他们小。

时间过得真快啊，
我们大家都长大了，不是吗？
=）

WONG FU 4 LYFE

So my new year resolution are coming on their way.
As I blogged before this on 5 january 2012, I hope I could meet some online celebrities this year.
One day after my blogpost which is 6 Jan 2012,
Wong Fu Productions announce that they are coming to Malaysia on 4 February 2012.

I got so excited,
 I thought my dream was about to came true.
Since I missed quite a number of my favourite celebrities shows in Malaysia.
I missed Jayesslee and David Choi last year.
And this year I'm really dying to meet and great Wong Fu Production this year.
I missed David's concert because I have final exam on the day of his show,
so I couldn't make it.
I didn't make it for Jayess's concert,
it's because my boyfriend say they perform the show with other artists,
which I might not be a big fan of them,
so it is not worth of paying that much money just to see Jayess singing for a few minutes.
Besides, Jayess's concert is quite far away in Cheras,
we won't be able to make it since my boyfriend will work till quite late.

I told my boyfriend I am a super big fan of Wong Fu.
Then he said, why not we keep these money from Jayesslee's concert,
and next time if Wong Fu are coming to Malaysia,
we'll use these money to meet and greet Wong Fu.
Although I was disappointed that time, but I told myself i'll be even happier if I could meet Wong Fu.

I talked to my parents and my boy friend today,
happily telling them my dream is coming true.
Wong Fu are coming to Malaysia, and I finally have a chance to meet them.
My favourite artists.

I told them it cost RM95 for general admission ticket.

general admission ticket itself can get free poster+ meet and greet + Q&A.

This means with RM95 I can talk to wong fu personally,

take picture with them and probably get to shake their hands too!
And for this RM 95 it will be a majority Wong Fu show,
which means most of the time it will be Wong Fu performing,
since there's only 2 other performers are joining them.
Besides they are selling their merchandise too.
I have been wanting to buy some awkward animals but due to the expensive shipping fee I didn't buy them.
Since they are coming here this time, I would be able to get them at a cheaper price!!!!
It's really exciting!!!!

However the reply and answers from my parents and my boyfriend are disappointing.
This time, they have some other reasons to turn me down AGAIN.
Yes, AGAIN.
I know I won't be able to meet my favourite artist this time AGAIN.
Although this time I'm on holiday (I got plenty of time),
and the show is just 10 minutes drive away (at Taylor's Lakeside campus),
I won't be able to join.
And somehow deep in my heart I know if I miss this chance,
I won't have another chance to meet Wong Fu anymore.
Because unlike singers, they have only experiences and videos to share,
which make them less popular to be invited overseas.

If you're asking me am I upset?
I would say yes.
But what to do?
Life still has to go on.
Like David sings,
This and That is life.

Dear Phil, Ted, and Wes from Wong Fu Productions,
Thank you for coming to Malaysia.
It is my biggest dream ever to meet you guys,
at least just once in my life.

Meeting us or not doesn't make a difference in your life,

since you guys do not know every fan of yours after all.
But still you guys gave a chance for us fans to meet you guys.
If there's another chance to meet and great you guys,
I hope I can make it.
WONG FU 4 LYFE!

吵架

遇别人恶言相向时,怎么办?如果对方是日後还要相处的同学同事,那我建议你可以回问:「你为什么这么气啊 ?」,或「什么事把你气成这样 ?」,这類問法,應可稍稍喚醒对方就事論事的理性,也有助你和对方都冷静些。遇到疯拳,先用轻功闪开,争取一點展開對話的機會,若直接还手,只會更亂。 

在一个网站看到了上诉的提议。

有人告诉我，人往往生气时会有很多念头和想法出现在脑袋里。但当气消时，却会发现为什么那么气？值得吗？让彼此的心静下来，事情就容易解决多了。每件事情都是双方面的。所以，彼此间都要互相容忍。若对方有错之处，尽量心平气和地商量。

但愿如此！可惜很多时候事与愿违。一个巴掌拍不响啊！一方总是心平气和的商量时，另一方无意要商讨，三番四次恶言相向，也很难继续谈下去。因此为了避免争论，就选择了容忍。但一方总是一再容忍，另一方就越来越离谱，也很难叫人再继续容忍吧。人的忍耐总是有个极限的。

然后，前面那一方情绪就失控了。人总有情绪失控的时候，情绪失控的同时，理智也伴随而去。而每每那个时候，就会胡说八道或口吐真言。在互相攻击的过程中，你来我往的刻薄话令大家都伤痕累累。事后就算感有愧意，却碍于面子的继续我行我素。到最后大家不欢而散，身边的人也不知所措。

然后，大家都会责怪情绪失控的那一方，但是没有人真正去了解，是什么因素导致了前面那一方情绪失控了。就断定了，是情绪失控的那一方不对，要他们道歉。离谱的那一方，还要趁机装可怜，扮无辜，博同情。看戏也常常有的说得吧？“不管是什么事，只要是你先出手打人就是你不对”。人，很多时候往往只是看表面，在还没有深入了解之前，就下了定论。但没有人去谅解，在这之前情绪失控的那一方已经屡次受到伤害，却都容忍了下来。虽然你来我往的刻薄话令大家伤痕累累，但我想说的是，一再容忍后情绪失控的那一方受的伤，一定会比三番四次恶言相向后还要趁机装可怜，扮无辜，博同情的那一方深。然而，不但没有人谅解和替前方的人出头，反而还有责怪前面那方，偏帮后面那方。这样做，等于在前面那一方的人伤口上撒了把盐，原本已经上的比较深的那一方，现在的伤口更深了。

不是每句对不起都能换来没关系。 真的。碍于面子也好，碍于愧意也好，说出来的那句对不起不管是不是真心的，都无法磨灭心中的伤痕。因为即使事情平息后，伤口留下来的疤痕，是经历过痛留下来深深的烙印。


容忍，不代表我不介意；沉默，不代表我没意见；道歉，不代表祈求你的原谅；原谅，亦不代表我能把之前的事情当作从没发生过。很多时候，这些都是因为不想为难彼此，为难身边的人，为了平息风波所作出来的门面功夫。因为大家都比较能接受一些偽善的人，或许因为人们都只看到表面，亦可能他们只想看表面。

又是一个寂寞的夜晚。
我呢，又来到这里抒发情绪了。
一天里面可以发生很多事，
很多时候，发生这些事让我们可以很愉快，
或是很不愉快。

有的时候我们付出的多，人家看不到，
而人家所看到的努力，其实是装出来的。
或许是因为大家都比较能接受一些偽善的人，反而真正的好人，他們會害怕。
人，很多时候往往只是看表面，
在还没有深入了解之前，就下了定论.

这样的错误，我也曾经犯下。
我自认不是一个EQ很高的人，
一发现有和自己意见上有冲突的地方，
我就会破口大骂。

爸爸告诉我，
神给一般人两个耳朵，两个眼睛，一个嘴巴，
用意或许就是要我们多聆听，多观察，少说活。
而眼睛和耳朵的位置，于嘴巴之上，
大概也是因为要我们先聆听，先观察，在发表。

人非圣贤，孰能无过？

我知道错了，也愿意去悔改。。

最重要还是知错能改，善莫大焉。

人，并不是不懂得从错误中学习，

但是得要看看那个人人不认为自己有做错了。

因此现在的我，每当遇上不愉快的事情，

我会到处聆听，观察，再到这里发表。

最近上网认识了一位叫Chris Jeon的美国人。

他选择了与众不同的方式去体会人生。

芳龄21岁的他，暑假选择到柬埔寨的村落教英语，

Libya前线的革命战场，亚马逊森林与当地的原著民生活，

或者是身上带着一块钱，去人生地不熟的地方过了几个星期。

然后又认识了一位叫Carly Fleischmann 的加拿大人。

他是一位患了自闭症的女生，在某天学会了用打字来表达自己，

从此掀开了自闭症患者不为人知的世界，

改变了许多科学家和医药界对自闭症的多年来的定义与看法。

然后看到了一个video，

有一位男士是来自同性恋家庭，

带大他的父母都是女士，

但他认为这对他的成长经历，性格，和性倾向并无影响，

现在的他也使社会上有所贡献的白领人士。

因此他呼吁人们正视同性恋婚姻。

提了这三个case，

并不仅仅是从他们的人生经历当中有所领悟。

从中我也领悟到，每个人都有自己诠释心中想法的那一套。

每个人的经历不同，所以自然会有不同的领悟，

因此看待，和对待人，事，物的方法，自然也有所不同。

但是，我认为，每个人都有自己的思想，而每一位都代表每一种獨立和自主的做人方法，這些並不是不和諧的表現。和諧，不是一百個人說同一句話；而是一百個人說不同的話之餘，懂得互相尊重。

人生，往往会面对许多问题，

不管他们是好的还是不好的，

我们对必须做出选择。

但不管如何，我始终认为做自己认为应该做的，

只要过得了自己的良心那一关就好了。

因为如果你的心里已经有了个答案，不过别人说什么，

早已先入为主的概念也很难被改变的，不是吗？

兵来将挡，顺其自然吧！

I wanna go home!!!!

I just want to finish my final year project.
Why is it so tough to give an permission for me to conduct an vision screening?!
This and that la.
Bla bla bla....


I just wanna go home.
I just wanna have my holiday peacefully.
Why am I stucked here in KL ?! Why Why Why!!!

为什么你没把东西拿下来？为什么你没跟我讲？为什么你没看到？为什么你没讲清楚？为什么那......为什么这......“ 其实，为什么只会问人家为什么的人不想想为什么会有那么多的为什么？？？”

Happy 2012!!!

Happy New Year people!

I hope I can meet David Choi, Ryan Higa, Kevin Wu, Wong Fu Productions this year!
I hope everyone is healthy, happy, and stay together with their love one forever!
I hope everybody can think positive when there's down in their lives!
I hope everything will be good and okay!
I hope and I do believe it would not be the end of the world!

I love, I cherish, I care!!!
Hugs everyone!
=D